Dowel, paint stirrer, tree branch, PVC pipe. Just rinse it off with the hose, the small amount won't kill the grass. Not to in any way minimize the amount of caution that should be used, but the solution, at the recommended strength, won't instantly eat flesh from bone. If you were, however, to dip your hand in it and not immediately rinse it off, you'd start experiencing a feeling of irritation like a sunburn. Better to use the recommended precautions, though, especially eye protection. And, yes, always add lye to water, never the reverse.