What I am saying is from my trial and error experience. I am more of a user rather than a collector, and have run into the same issues that you have. For example, I bought some mass marketed sausage patties at my local supermarket and thought "these have not been cured so this would be perfect for my newly seasoned skillet, right?"
Wrong:
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Is it the water? Sugar? Another ingredient that eats seasoning in a way that I am not familiar with? Doesn't matter to me -- I just add it to the list of things not to cook in a newly seasoned skillet and move on.
I have also found that some brands of butter contain more water than I had expected and have wreaked havoc on my newly seasoned skillets. As a result I now clarify my butter and it has made a huge difference.
Again, this stuff doesn't matter much when you are using a strongly seasoned skillet, but I have learned the hard way to be selective when cooking in a newly seasoned skillet.